After I have been to my father’s house I become stressed out over money. He is obsessed with money. When I was a child he would never buy anything unless it was absolutely essential. I was the only kid in school with a black blazer, because it was a few pence cheaper than a navy blue one. When most kids had 2/6d s a week spending money I got 9d, and I was not allowed to spend it on sweets.
We only ever had three family holidays.
Even now he makes me fee guilty for spending my own money on myself or my wife.
He drives me up the wall.